Radical Thoughts

We always hear that people 'fall' in love. I got the question of when will people 'rise' in love? Any eternal thing should uplift you but not sabotage you. By the definition of love, a person should rise in it but not fall into it. Then why is it called 'falling' in love??? I think people will fall in love because it's similar to falling in a trap, marriage is the next level- the downfall, and instead of rising, they will be busy in raising their kids. Stop falling in love and start rising in love. You can only do that by going deeper into it. If you have the guts, dig deeper from the upper layers and reach the core of the emotion. Then you will realize you are not loving another person, you are just loving the reflection of your life values. ఏదో బాగుందని చెప్పిన. Grammar తప్పులుంటే క్షమించండి. అసలు అర్థమే లేదనుకుంటే మన్నించండి. 😜 😜 😋 😁 🤗

"You are not a Love Failure if you couldn't get the girl you loved, you are a Love Failure only when the girl you loved is unhappy in her life. Love is not about possession, it's about the contentment of your loved one. You can celebrate your love if she is having a happy married life " - Sharath Chandra

When Nazi Germany occupied Russia, many Russian women became prostitutes, slept with the German soldiers, and stole the army secrets from them to pass those on to Russian Army. There are women warriors in history. I think the women in the above incident are not any less than those warriors in conviction and patriotism.

If your intelligence level goes up, you become more logical, more organized, and you start to flex your brain to think at a higher level of IQ. But that lowers your creativity. Because creativity develops from imperfection, childishness, madness, and sometimes from disorientation. Every genius starts off from the ground with creativity but later wants to shine through his/ her intelligence. When they become highly intelligent, they become extremely boring to the people who  once appreciated them. It's because their thirst to be recognized as genius rather than creative, steals the shine of their out-of-the-box thinking. They get trapped in the new box which they once invented by coming out of existing boxes. Any top film director of Indian Film Industry will stand as the best example for the theory. All those who started with new ideas, ended up boring to audience and diminished because of repeating their own style unbearable times. It's because of becomi...

Using Alchemist theory, many people tried for generations to convert base metals into gold by altering the electronic configuration. That never happened and all that effort became equal to chasing a wild goose in dark. In our country, our system is trying to produce scholars by mass educating students in classrooms. We could never produce scientists, entrepreneurs, thinkers, scholars, and leaders because gold has to be found out from Earth, we should not try to manufacture it. When you leave children to themselves, the gold will automatically form. If you try to convert iron into gold by adding protons or removing electrons, the actual gold you have will turn into iron. Our education system is a futile attempt. The students should realize it and acquire wisdom on their own instead of wasting years of their lives in the mass rankers-producing factories. Those factories can produce rankers but not scholars. The world recognizes scholars, it doesn't give...

In love marriage, the two partners will have euphoria over their combination and an exciting imagination of how they are going to live. In marriages arranged through matrimony profiles, the partners will verify their checklists and leave the remaining with a hope that married life will be good enough. It's the reason why love marriages fail more in number and society shows those examples to endorse arranged marriages. In simple words, love marriages are full of expectations. Bo th will be in the mind state of a die-hard fan going to his favourite hero's movie on the first day; very hard and rare to reach the expectations. In an arranged marriage, both will be in the mind state of a general audience watching a movie which is declared hit; they might watch it for passing time and go home. I think the best solutions are 1. Married partners should not live in the same house. That sustains the suspense between them and builds the desire to see each other after a gap...

Pictures, messages, greetings between couples all over social media. When intimacy was so much revealed in public, I found the answer to my questions in Hyderabad Chronicle today. "Everyone wants to show how lovey-dovey they are even if they are not. This is a new age disease. People who are not content with their lives and relationships and take others' permission to be happy. If someone comments saying they look good together, they are assured that everything is fine. If so meone's partner puts up a cute post, others want to show that they love their partners too." - Harpreet Kaur, Relationship Expert. Explicit observation with a bull's eye! Ha, start yelling at me that not everyone is like that. But before that read properly first where it says "People who are not content with their lives and relationships..". If you are happy, well and good, go n celebrate your love life. Don't waste time on reading my nitty-gritty posts.

World Happiness Report of UN puts India among the saddest nations ranking it 122 out of 155 countries in the report. The attributes on which the decision is made are per capita GDP, life expectancy, corruption, support systems, freedom to take decisions, and generosity. Those pretty much explain our rank, I need not elucidate. I always used to contemplate why the people I see on roads appear to me as lifeless wasted zombies, a plethora of sorrow overflowing from their heads  and body; I got my answer now. I was not wrong in any of my assumptions. When the whole country lags behind in happiness even with a year-full of festivals, it's no use blaming the people for it. Better luck in future.

Religion is the root cause of backwardness and it's impossible for people to get rid of it. When you investigate the root cause of any regressed society, you will discover that religion is the strongest force behind it. With the wings spread over continents and countries, a religion dictates how people work, form core groups, recreate, relax, marry, study, work, live, and die. In short, it dictates the productive, emotional, and belief systems of a person from birth to death. The main problem with religion is it encompasses a huge number of people and it becomes a horrifying task for anyone to face such a mass maniacs. Socrates was killed, Galileo was killed, and innumerable thinkers are assassinated for voicing their counter arguments and contradicting the conventional belief system. If there are any intellects who know its vices, they get carried away in the crowd with the fear of being left out and isolated. More than the actual fools, I feel honest pity for people who...

Not good or bad but am just mad by Sharath Chandra You look at me and think am insane I like it a lot I never complain To you, my character is a puzzle It's why we always have a constant tussle I studied a lot but never advocated grades Instead, I was involved in multiple trades I didn't settle abroad or earn million dollars But without it, I lived differently and raised my collars I lost many people on the journey of life But that made me stronger and immune to grief I have experienced roller coaster of emotions in loneliness It is then I realized how people fall for faux happiness I watched TV and has grown up as a movie buff but I had a great time even when life was tough I never ever cared for a secured future Because life loses thrill when it will have a structure I had lost love many times each heartbreak greater n greater But it's when I saw their life that I became a real love failure I thought they would live happier by leaving me But...

Not so good looking  by  Sharath Chandra "My dear crush, am not so good looking But you're irresistibly alluring and charming I always wanted to express my feeling of crush A handsome guy talks to you and my heart is crushed Am not so good at getting top grades But I have inside me other interesting shades I may not be the centre of attention But all I have inside me is a Universe of affection I may not have all the money But I can make you smile by being super funny I may not a have good physique But am not weak, am healthy and have a strong logic Rejecting me is your freedom But I just pity that your life will be filled with boredom Your beauty will fade out in a decade Then you will see in the rich handsome guy, his real facade Don't think I will whine over your rejection I am not like you to believe in perfection I will move over to find a girl who likes me for my true nature I will love her madly because am a fiercely invincible creature"

Your eyes reflect your intensity. Look with focus, not with narrowness.

Love of Power is more powerful than the power of Love. It's the reason wars happen for love only in mythologies and fantasy tales but real World Wars happen for Power.

" Those who don't know history are doomed to repeat it. " ― Edmund Burke America has had a pulsating rise as the world's superpower since it was formed fresh without any past history. Today its people are fighting for nativity rights, jobs, and health insurance. Till now, America has studied world history. Now the world will witness America's history live as it's building it.

Rich people, so-called successful people, and self-proclaimed happy people desire deliberately that people around them should die of jealousy looking at their wealth, status, success, or happiness. And they complain that all bad eyes are on them and they are facing distress in life due to the black magic effect. For our public, honesty is half but standards are double. If you be a badass, you can blow off the bad eyes!!

Manushi Chillar's winning answer in Miss World 2017 pageant. England and Mexico gave her a tough competition in confidence but her answer got emerged as the best because she answered that "Mother" is the profession which should be paid highest. All the hearts won but it's very hard to decide if it was from inside or to appease the judges. Hypocrisy and Honesty cannot be filtered from shorter gestures. Ironically, people from beauty pageants, take more time and years of contemplation to enter motherhood. Felt offensive? Be not. I advise you not to be so sensitive in a tough world.

Democracy is the rule of the majority but the majority can go wrong. It's because there is no such thing as the Majority; one person's opinion influences the majority. So democracy is an outdated concept and we will have a more dynamic political system in future where there will be no majority and no minority but there are just individuals.

Public figures, bureaucrats, politicians, celebrities, actors, police officers, and doctors etc. who are perceived as high achievers completely lose their work-life balance and miss their family time to 99%. Work will have overrun their family lives causing great grief to their loved ones i.e family members. They publicly admit that they missed all their family time due to work. As a consoling act, they thank their spouses and children for understanding them. But am damn sure , their spouse n children will never forgive them in their lifetime. The first time I heard of the most shocking 'bad family person' example was when S.P Balasubramaniam said in an interview that he used to leave home at 4 am before his children woke up and used to return home at 12 am after they slept. He didn't see them growing up for 20 long years. The achievements become futile if your family despises you every minute. At the end of life, all you seek is memories and work doe...

If you want to remove discrimination, you should bring equality; providing special privileges does not solve the problem. It just reverses the discrimination.

A beautiful woman is not always conscious of her beauty. She might not always like flirting complements about her physical attributes. If she feels she has other strengths to be appreciated, she will respect the people who acknowledge them

When a few are selfish and others are sacrificial (altruistic), the world remains a place of melancholy. World will be revamped and flourished only when everybody is selfish.

A free advice to achievement hunters... 🤗 🤗 "Do you have a goal? If not set one. Otherwise, life is directionless". This is what we hear all the time. But if your goal turns out to be a false one? What if you won't be happy after reaching the goal? What if you lose many things in the process and your achievement doesn't compensate them? Linear goal setting and achieving is a dead old, beaten to dust concept which is being said even to the children of International Schools. To b e dynamic is the wise process. Life will be fun only when we embrace the twists, explore new solutions, change directions, and live life happily. Whoever told you that you have to sacrifice enjoyment to reach goals will become your biggest enemies after you realize. It is because anyone's biggest goal will be Happiness. Have you to sacrifice happiness for being happy? It will sound like you have to kill yourself to be alive. Life without a goal is a lamp without o...

All human relations are economic relations - Karl Marx While it might seem cynical, it's a hard fact. Any relationship between two financially unequal people doesn't work out because it is impossible for the rich to not dominate and it becomes compulsory for the poor to bear the humiliation. Rich and Not-so-rich friendships work only if one of the parties surrender their self-respect. A tiger and deer can't become friends because however good is the tiger, it instinctively w ants to eat the deer. People are important than money is great spiritual saying but when pockets are full, no one listens to your wisdom quotes. When your relative or friend become rich, it's a warning signal that you have to live without them. If you become rich, be ready, you will hurt many people.

Botulinum Toxin is the world's deadliest poison. To put that in perspective; one gram of it can kill 5.5 million people. But it's now used in Botox Injections, a form of skin treatment that reduces facial wrinkles by relaxing the muscles. You cannot get rid of bad things in the world and it's foolish to try so. But you can organize their usage. In short, how you use is more important than what you have.

Productivity often traps you in routine tasks, constant growth, and measurable progress. But creativity makes you explore new ideas (even the ones that don't work), take risks, and do adventures and that's where life is. So never forget to be creative even if your manager pressures you to be productive. Don't think that even to talk about creativity you need to be as successful as Steves Jobs. Remember, there are many Steves without Jobs...  😉 🤗 🤘 - Sharath Chandra

Privacy described in the best way.  😜 🤗 😁 😋 🖖 “Probably one of the most private things in the world is an egg before it is broken.” ― M.F.K. Fisher The mind is like an egg. Egg yolk coming out of it is the secret. The egg yolk is heated and spices are added before anyone will have it.  😜 😄 Finally, it becomes an omelette. So your secret is a secret only until is in your mind. You cannot put back the egg yolk back into the egg or at least you cannot get back the egg yolk from the omelette. If it was funny, laugh at it, if it was informative, enjoy it, if it was ridiculous, leave it.

Depression: To tell it very precisely, a person goes into depression only because of two reasons. 1. Comparing himself to others with respect to abilities or genius 2. Not being able to leave people and move on with life We are temporary here, so it's better to keep on exploring our potential and enjoying the life instead of wasting on thinking that someone is great. All big celebrities who have seen heydays ended up lonely in their last days. How much loving and close you may be, when the time comes, you have to accept the change and differences, leave the person, and move on. Life becomes worse if you cling on to people who don't respect you anymore. Depression does not arise from suppression bit it 's a result of self-deception. You have to learn to live by yourself and live for yourself. “I swear by my life and my love of it that I will never live for the sake of another man, nor ask another man to live for mine.” ― Ayn Rand, Atlas Shrug...

The only place to escape from life's restlessness if washroom at home as no one would disturb you there while you take an hour of a hot shower. The the only place to escape the hypocritical, cynical society and the hustle and bustle of the busy running life is a Prison as no one can come n stay wid u. Sometimes, the least expected places will give you the most soothing relief.

Crying gives an outlet to deep sorrow locked inside your mind or gives an instant relief from a recent agony. Many people treat crying as weakness and try to avoid it. Crying is not weakness but the actual thing that makes you weak is the consolation you get from someone. Strong people become weak by getting habituated to consolations and weak people become dependable on consoling persons. You are really strong only if you can cry alone. If you are afraid of your own crying,  there is no one for you in this world. There is no best friend in the world than yourself. Just throw away the crap in mind and learn to live in your company. You become closer to your inner self while crying. Don't let that be disturbed by having someone by your side. It is like sex, a private and personal thing. You don't need anyone to console you. Consoling people actually want you to cry more so that they can feel their importance in showing you concern.

You know why the earth is round? Because in that way, no one will ever know whether they are going forward or moving backwards. Earth revolves around the Sun and returns to the same place in 365 days.. Humans evolve through philosophy and technology but finally go back to the same nature of Insecurity and eventual destruction.

How much you may earn, how much you may gather fame, how much you may be talented, your real satisfaction comes only when you inspire one single person. Inspiring is the purpose of life. Because wealth makes you thirsty, fame makes you maniac, but when you want to inspire, you will lead a fulfilled life.